· Brave
· Enthusiastic
· Willing to defend me and have my back
· Very romantic
· Hygienic
· Very clean cut
· Prep boy swag
· Likes to dance/party/socialize
· Not a smoker
· Drinks but rarely (special occasions only)
· Driven
· Has high self-esteem (not conceited)
· Knows what he wants out of life and has a plan on how to get there
· Dark chocolate man with a beautiful smile
· heterosexual
· Close to where I live or willing to move closer
· Supportive
· Family-oriented
· Willing to compromise
· Lean in body muscle (not skinny)
· Passionate love-maker who likes to get a little rough
· Spiritual (not religious)
· Responsible
· Can manage/budget money well
· Doesn’t get super irritated when work gets busy
· Can communicate well with me about how he’s feeling
· Very open and honest and considerate about feelings when being honest
· Willing to do community service/give back to society
· Likes to go out but mostly likes to chill and cuddle while watching a movie
· Will believe that our relationship is an equal partnership
· Nice lips
· Facial hair (not a lot though)
· Creative
· Influential
· Motivated
· Mature
· Willing to make an adequate amount of time for me
· Affectionate
· Strong upper body (nice arm muscles)
· Fit (doesn’t have a gut)
· Nice teeth
· Kind of tall
· Adventurous/Daring
· Open-minded
· Willing to expand his knowledge
· Playful
· Great sense of humor
· Very understanding and able to admit when he’s in the wrong/humble
· Strong, masculine presence
· Sensual/Sexy
· Big, bright eyes that show the depths of his soul (long eyelashes)
· Jet black hair
· Not needy/ Independent
· Works hard on self-growth and forgiveness
So there it is ladies and gents! Nothing to be worried about and nothing that isn't achievable.
It sounds like you want Morris Chestnut from Not Easily Broken. I think that these are all good qualities to look for in a man,I'm just not sure if you there are a lot of people out there who possess all of those qualities. They may have half of them, but not all. I think it would be helpful if you decided on which qualities are the most important for your relationship. I'm not suggesting that you settle, but if you meet a great guy, don't just turn your back on him because he doesn't have qualities 26-29. Some of those qualities may strengthen during the relationship, and you two can grow together. I think something that all women should do is do a self-examination and ask themselves "Am I at the point or have I developed the right qualities to attract a man like this?" I think when people work on themselves rather than working to finding that "perfect" one, then they're more successful in finding a mate.
ReplyDeleteExactly the perspective I was coming from! Right now I'm at a stage in my life where I wanna make sure I can meet all the requirements of my own list so that it will not be difficult to attract a man of the same caliber as me, and I do believe in compromise. If a guy doesn't fit some of the things on the list I would be willing to compromise if I feel like he truly makes me happy and can grow with him, but if not then he's getting the boot lol.
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